dinsdag 20 juli 2010

Giethoorn

羊角村
两星期后,小兔子也回来了,爸妈决定一家人出去游玩。
这几天为了搬家, 忙得人人都觉得灰灰的。爸妈忙得灰灰的。。我忙着玩FACEBOOK。。
爸妈舍不得女儿帮忙,女儿一回家也就利用这luxury, 懒懒散散的。
在US还要理家做吃的。一回家,摇身又变回了小姐样。天塌下来, 有爸妈撑着。
真好!嘻嘻!

坐了近3小时的火车+公车,坐的屁股发酸终于到了。
一下公车,肚子却饿了,妈妈建议先坐下吃鱼,爸爸却已经开始到处拍照了。
羊角村的油炸鳕鱼(LEKKERBEK和KIBBELING)配蒜茸浆相当的新鲜,鱼肉嫩滑, 好吃得很。
生的大西洋百鲱肉嫩汁多,肥得很,配上洋葱粒, 把鱼的甜味提了上来。
烟熏鳗鱼鱼肉很厚实,味道鲜美。

一家人优哉游哉坐着船喝着咖啡欣赏着夏日的羊角村。和来来回回的旅游者打着招呼。 每个人都是笑眯眯的。。。这是发自内心的快乐,无比的轻松。
撑船的是一个金毛帅哥, 一边讲解羊角村的历史,文化, 一边自己在享受荷兰的盛夏和小河旁吹来的风。
下船以后,走在这飘落着白杨花的小路上, 两边都是划着船旅客,有坐着大巴士从德国来的, 比利时来的,台湾来的,香港来的,大陆来的,还有自己骑脚踏车去玩的。
随便找个咖啡馆坐下,人看人,人看船,人看牛羊,牛羊看人,大人看小孩,小孩看大人, 吃块苹果派, 喝个咖啡, 谈笑自如。这就是荷兰人的生活。为了开心而生活。

这样开心了足足3个多小时,恋恋不舍的我们要去赶最后一班公车了。
前前后后加起来花了9个多时辰, 前六个小时都花在交通上了。不过这个地方很值得去游玩。
我们全家又过了一个快快乐乐的一天。

vrijdag 9 juli 2010

About Chap. 2

After I wrote Chap.2 Visit from NYC

There was overloaded lies, tears, threat, gossips, hypocrisy, ungratefulness.
There were too many ugly stuff to handle, but you learn a lot from it.

*Profession has nothing to do with education.
People are into classic music, art or literary  doesn't mean that they have a good heart, being humble, honest or people with courtesy. They could be as selfish, as disgusting like any one.
Next time, when you see some "elegant" lady play music on the stage, she can be the one who's wearing a underwear that hasn't been cleaned for 2 days or a person who invite herself into your house to make a mess of it and still have the guts to gossip behind your back. 
"What happened when people see this article(even the article didn't mention her name)? omg, I lost my reputation because of this(Like I have 100k visitors every day). You destroyed my reputation. I will sue you!"
This is the way how a "elegant" music performer will say " THANK YOU".
What are you talking about? What reputation? Who are you? Few videos on YouTube, doesn't make you a super star. How pathetic! 
Have you been thinking for somebody else? All those damages you made? Oh, of course not, what was I thinking, she was totally NARCISSIST ! 

After we took her out for restaurant, movies, beaches, all we heard from her mother is she's crying everyday, she complained that we were treating her badly. She is been tortured. 
Did I tortured her to tell her to keep her voice down after midnight? She is calling her friends at 4am everyday, my hubby has to work everyday, we kept hearing her voice and laughter, so I told her nicely to keep her voice down.
After I told her to practice her music before 22:00 and not 1am in the morning. Her mom told me that we didn't give her freedom!?!?
Everything in the house is been taking care of, so she didn't need to do any households stuff and that considered treat her badly?
She shouting/screaming like people who suffering from mental disorder at me on the phone that we were heartless people who doesn't care about her, that we didn't see she was crying every night. All we saw was a happy smiling girl in the morning.  I wasn't sure her mother ever mentioned that she got DSM-5-TR or personality disorder.
Isn't it scary? I got goosebumps when I think of her behavior. She could be a psychopath. 

You are the one who invite yourself into my house while we were busy with moving, didn't you forgot how you sound like when you need a place to stay?
If you are so famous like you said, you shouldn't be pathetic, you should get your own place to stay.
Trying so hard to make the others feel bad, so she can taste a bit of superiority is what you called classy?
What a sad insecure, low self esteem broken personality.

Are you kidding me? Have you even been educated? The music school only teaches you how to perform the music and not how to be a human?
After I know she said bad things behind my back, I still allow her to stay in my place until the last day(her mom said that she got nowhere to go). Now I regret that I didn't kick her out right after I know what she did, she is too selfish to know we are nice to her, not because we own her something, we don't own each other anything. You are just a relative that I rarely see, you need help, so I help you. That's it. 

*Sometimes, some people, just left the way as it is, you don't have to know them. When you know them better? scary ugly things will come out. Stay away from those people.
*Some people rather refuse to admit their mistakes, they just want to live in their own pride or should I say, their own lies?
* don't fool yourself by how it looks.
*Disgusting shameless people are everywhere.
*Say NO, if you doubt about something, even the one ask you over and over again, No is No.
*People standing on street play music, perform art didn't mean that they are not artists; people that performance on the stage doesn't mean that they are always the artists.
* Please know the person that you take home with. If you really want to help them out? Please watch Criminal Minds, CSI before you are trying to help.  
*The more people I meet the more I like my dog - Unknown  
Very true, if you give 1% of your love to dogs/cats, they will love you 100% back, but if you give a lot love to a human, they may back stack you. So watch out your back.